Can you tell I wrote the previous post after a LONG night of drinking? Becauses I did.
Today, I haven't completely changed my mind. I still think his actions are representative of a bigger issue. He expects many accomodations for his hobbies by the girl he is dating, but he seems incapable of compromising. That is unacceptable in my book.
I did probably take it a little far by saying my social life is over. It's not over. It's been a great year and I wouldn't go back and change it. But, I can't keep the pace that Flirty and I have kept this year, nor do I want to maintain that pace. But there will be times that I want to go out and let my hair down, Bossy-style, so I do hope that there are remaining friends that will accompany me. If I am dating someone, although "Bossy-style" going out may not be appropriate, I would still want to go out and have fun from time-to-time. And I would want my significant other to go out and have fun with me. I don't think Jake is that guy. He is a lot of the things I want, but I don't think he is the whole package.